Everybody has an opinion, including on your love life. Unfortunately, all of the advice you can get will not be equally valid. If your relationship is in trouble, or if you wish to further strengthen one that’s still going strong, you will find the perspective a professional counselor can provide invaluable when it comes to learning about what works in a relationship, and what doesn’t. The articles below discuss these matters in more detail.
There are people that are more compatible together than others. That is just a fact of reality. We all relate on different levels and enjoy doing different things both alone and in groups. Friends help to share our afflictions, celebrate our victories, and alleviate existential anxiety and loneliness. Having people to talk to that really understand your interests and motives can do wonders for your sense of feeling at home, supported, challenged, and accepted.
Making Your Own Family
They say that when you grow up and begin to make relationships outside of your relatives, that you can create your own family built from people that complement you and uniquely treasure your gifts and characteristics. Sometimes, the families that we are born into may not have anything particularly wrong with them, but can just have differing styles of living or languages of love, making us feel somewhat alienated around them. Part of self-development is getting to know the things and places which provide you with feelings of safety or comfort.
People to Talk to
Remember that friendships don’t just pop up immediately. Intimacies are developed over time. It seems that some people are just on a more similar wavelength than others, in effect are the same kind of different as you are. Some connections may arise right away and feel as if you have known them for years, while others are bolstered through mutual experience and exposure.
Write a list of things you like about him or her and things you do not like. Think about how you would feel if you got into a disagreement with them. Would you care if he or she got mad at you or would it be no big deal? If you do not care if they like you or not, then you probably do not really like them.